What Deadlines Can Do To You

LIFE
Life isn’t about keeping score.
It’s not about how many friends you have.
Or how accepted you are.
Not about if you have plans this weekend or
If you are alone.
It isn’t about who you’re dating, who you used to date,
how many people you’ve dated,
Or if you haven’t been with anyone at all.
It isn’t about who you have kissed, it’s not about sex.
It isn’t about who your family is
Or how much money they have.
Or what kind of car you drive.
Or where you are sent to school.
It’s not about how beautiful or ugly you are.
Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on,
Or what kind of music you listen to.
It’s not about if your hair is blonde, red, black or brown.
Or if your skin is too light or too dark.
Not about what grades you get, how smart you are,
How smart everybody else thinks you are,
Or how smart standartised tests say you are.
It’s not about what clubs you’re in
Or how good you are at ‘your’ sport.
It’s not about representing your whole being on a piece of paper
And seeing who will ‘accept the written you.’
LIFE JUST ISN’T ANY OF THAT
But life is about who you love and who you hurt.
It’s about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully.
It’s about keeping or betraying trust.
It’s about friendship, used as a sanctity or weapon.
It’s about what you say and mean,
Maybe hurtful, maybe heartening.
About starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
It’s about what judgements you make and why
And who your judgements are spread to.
It’s about who you’ve ignored with full control or intention.
It’s about jealousy, fear, ignorance and revenge.
It’s about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow, and spreading it.
But most of all, it’s about using your life to touch
or poison other people’s hearts in such a way
that could have never occurred alone.
Only you choose the way those hearts are affected,
and those choices are what life is all about.

Author Unknown
For my future teenage kids;)